"Never looked at it like that... Never found a relationship to justify that sort of thing." says a husband of 47 years.
Our 6th interview... A man never thought about cheating... Say what???
"Yes, my wife and I share interests, respect each other and communicate every day. We start each day talking. If sex is the most important thing in marriage, that's a lousy marriage."
What are your thoughts family?
-Coach Cass
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Thursday, July 26, 2012
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Making financial decisions in marriage: from 35 years married
Sooo we just finished another interview with a couple who has been married for 35 years.
Of course I wanted to share the #1 thing I got from it, the rest you have to read in the book when it comes out.
Figure out you and your partners' risk tolerance when it comes to money. Find a common ground. And agree to have a base amount with no drama.
Ok need more details? Stay tuned
-Coach Cass
Www.inspiremany.com/cruise
Of course I wanted to share the #1 thing I got from it, the rest you have to read in the book when it comes out.
Figure out you and your partners' risk tolerance when it comes to money. Find a common ground. And agree to have a base amount with no drama.
Ok need more details? Stay tuned
-Coach Cass
Www.inspiremany.com/cruise
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Featured in Woman's Day magazine
I don't even know what to say! Literally I have wanted to be in a national publication for the last two years and now the first step! Woman's day magazine! Woohoo! Understand that if you keep pressing towards your goal. Inch by inch you will get there.
I'm speechless. And very excited.
Up next the greatest personal development cruise!
Much love,
Coach Cass
I'm speechless. And very excited.
Up next the greatest personal development cruise!
Much love,
Coach Cass
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Interview 4: Would you still get married?
Hey family! I'm seeking feedback on these interviews to make apart of my next book on marriage. No I'm not married. My co-author and I are interviewing 100 couples who have been married over 20 years to get the real deal on sticking it through.
So the last interview was shocking.
Could you imagine meeting someone of a different race in college... Knowing this is the person you wanted to be with, but because of your race. Your family forbid you to get married. Therefore you walk away.... For 20 years. Find a "filler" marry that person. Even start a family... Just to be reunited 20 years later and it's as if not a Day had passed by. But this time around something is wrong ... The Love of your Life says: I have multiple sclerosis. And multiple sclerosis is a degenerative disease that the future is only dismal and you know that your hunny will eventually become a vegetable. Would you still marry that person?
Waiting for your feedback,
Many blessings,
Casandra Roache
Aka Coach Cass
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Sunday, July 15, 2012
30 Years of Marriage tells it all!
Wow we had our 3rd interview ... This couple was something that you hear out of a storybook.
2 kids, in business together, family dinner with extended fam on Fridays, all other days Sitting around the table.
I spoke to the husband and after our hour of speaking about the real deal in his 30 years of marriage , these are the keys of marriage advice that he shared about being happy:
- never go to sleep angry : wait a sec! Are you serious?? But what it I'm sleepy? " if you go to sleep angry, you will wake up angry. So you might as well resolve it then."
- "I'm never alone with another woman unless for business." wow that's discipline! "yea keeps me out of trouble.. I also don't talk to women on the phone."
-"build up your money, before you have kids... It'll save you a lot of problems." this one hit me bc I truly agree. Think about it, the average kid costs $250,000 to raise. Any other major purchase, most people prep for. But the problem is they prep for the wedding day costs but not the marriage.
Everything in perspective, I hope this marriage veteran's insight inspired you. B/c he sure did inspire me.
Love,
Casandra Roache
Aka Lifestyle Expert Coach Cass
Www.InspireMany.com
"Join us for the personal development cruise of the year www.inspiremany.com/cruise"
2 kids, in business together, family dinner with extended fam on Fridays, all other days Sitting around the table.
I spoke to the husband and after our hour of speaking about the real deal in his 30 years of marriage , these are the keys of marriage advice that he shared about being happy:
- never go to sleep angry : wait a sec! Are you serious?? But what it I'm sleepy? " if you go to sleep angry, you will wake up angry. So you might as well resolve it then."
- "I'm never alone with another woman unless for business." wow that's discipline! "yea keeps me out of trouble.. I also don't talk to women on the phone."
-"build up your money, before you have kids... It'll save you a lot of problems." this one hit me bc I truly agree. Think about it, the average kid costs $250,000 to raise. Any other major purchase, most people prep for. But the problem is they prep for the wedding day costs but not the marriage.
Everything in perspective, I hope this marriage veteran's insight inspired you. B/c he sure did inspire me.
Love,
Casandra Roache
Aka Lifestyle Expert Coach Cass
Www.InspireMany.com
"Join us for the personal development cruise of the year www.inspiremany.com/cruise"
Thursday, July 12, 2012
Marriage advice:It's impossible to love 24hrs a day
Wow we completed our second interview! What a rush! Did I tell you??? Me, Casandra "Coach Cass" Roache and Kaira Carter are interviewing 100 couples who have been married for over 20 years.(for our book) And we finished couple number 2!!!
Ann and Tom from Texas have been married for 45 years! Say what!?! I learned so much. I'll give you the main takeaway;;;
"You can't love someone 24 hours a day. So when you don't love them, give yourself permission to feel that way because tomorrow is a new day and you will love them again."
Powerful stuff! Can't wait for the next interview! Stay tuned.
-Coach Cass
Ann and Tom from Texas have been married for 45 years! Say what!?! I learned so much. I'll give you the main takeaway;;;
"You can't love someone 24 hours a day. So when you don't love them, give yourself permission to feel that way because tomorrow is a new day and you will love them again."
Powerful stuff! Can't wait for the next interview! Stay tuned.
-Coach Cass
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