Don't be quick to give a title

Ok, so the last blog quite a few people asked me to talk a little bit more on dating.


I find that people do not date enough. What I have seen is that once people go on a date and have a good time, one may feel committed or obligated. Creating titles for people they don't even know.

Sally and Rahiem go on a date...have a good time...after the date they go on another date...now let's saw Sally saw Rahiem out with another girl or vice versa. Should the opposite party get mad??

My answer NO. Why you ask...set guidelines and be up front and honest. LISTEN...a person will tell you what they are looking for...if they say "I don't want a relationship" Do not expect a relationship.

Something else Ive seen is that individuals will equate physical intimacy to love or committment..WRONG.

Wake up Dont be quick to give a title...

Take time...dont let it be soo easy people..

Ill share some tips:

!. See how that person interacts with others in a group setting.

Main reason is they can be one way around you then another way with others. They can't be 2 people all the time. Therefore put it to the test.

2. Its all in the questions asked.... Watch the kind of questions..

Dont just look for the frivolous what kind of music puts you in the mood....

Look at what kind of questions the person asks you if there are only physically geared be careful...

3. Take yourself out of the situation and make sure this is something you want.
Take things slow. Know the main morals and values you WILL NOT compromise. So if you say you will only eat chocolate chip cookies and this person hates chocolate chip...step away and keep moving...that is a very light metaphor but hopefully you get what Im saying...


I hope this helps a little...

Let me know what you want to know next...

ttys,
Coach Cass