Hi Family!
Top O the morning to you!!!!
Love...it seems that every conversation seems to revert to who are you seeing or not seeing. How did you meet...where is it going...
Relationships...a term some use to define their worth. A collection of people think "oh no- what do I do with out a boo"! So they just pick up "something" to feel wanted and appreciated.
Topic: Are you ready for a Relationship?
When was the last time you genuinely smiled?
Often times, 2 people enter a relationship unconsciously. Somehow, they spend lots of time and then one day they are together. Missing or overlooking signs that maybe this isnt the right thing...but because they've spent so much time who wants to start alllll of again.
i've seen some coupled walk down the aisle with this mentality! STOP!
we learned this in kindergarten!
Stop! Look! & Listen!
Stop!--If you find that you like someone. Stop and take the time to get to know them for who they truly are.
Look- Look at their actions. How do they treat you? Do you see them in their natural element? How do they act in different crowds around different types of people. I can't tell you the amount of times that I've seen or even experienced committing to a relationship from spending time with a person alone and then one day...they may be totally different with family or their friends. Very important to get to know and see the different sides of who you may be dating.
Listen- Listen to their conversation. Do they respect what you have to say? Do they seek your opinion or are they just constantly talking? In my experience, a one-sided conversation gets old quick. Much more fun when both parties are engaged and you feel that interest is reciprocated. Am I right? Also are they only talking about sex or physical attributes? Or are the interested in your vision or helping and supporting you achieve your goals?
Stop! Look! & Listen!
Master the basics...take it slow...If you rush a cake it is ruined the same here....if you rush through dinner to get to dessert you just may be disappointed.
Spend time getting to know you and what you want. Have your own hobbies and interests. Make sure not to revolve everything around your significant other.
Then ask yourself the tough questions:
Do I want to be in a relationship with Dante because he is the right one for me and I am happy or because I have a void Im trying to fill...
Tough questions but someone has to ask them.
If you truly are ready, I wish you both all the best. Any questions, text me 3053493648.
Much love & Many Blessings,
Coach Cass
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